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Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.
Here is Confessions from a Wing Girl #11: "Where Can I Go To Meet Women?"
A QUESTION FROM PETER:
I don’t know what I am doing wrong but every woman I meet keeps putting me in the friend zone when I want to be more? Why is this happening to me?
AND SOME WISE WORDS OF ADVICE FROM MARNI:
The only one “putting” you in the friend zone is you.
In my experience and as a woman, I have seen many men who tippy toe around asking me for what they want. They do this because they don’t think it’s polite to be obvious and let a woman know they are attracted and interested in pursuing.
My assumption is that men also think women are clueless. Of course we know.
As soon as you approach us we know or at least we always assume that is why you are approaching. We don’t think you are coming over to us at a bar or social location because you REALLY want to tell us about the recent stock market crash or find out our favorite color. We know and there is nothing wrong with that.
If you are attracted to us, approach us and then be perfectly clear why you are approaching. Don’t hide it or cover it up to seem less obvious. State your intentions and let it be known what you want.
Don’t try to be sneaky and ask to be a friend. Because you know what’s going to happen don’t you?
YOU WILL BECOME THE FRIEND. If you don’t ask for more, we won’t give you more. AND we will assume that you are very content being that friend until you tell us differently.
YOU KEEP ENDING UP IN THE FRIEND ZONE BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT ASKING TO BE IN THE ZONE YOU WANT!!!!!
My advice, when you meet a woman you are attracted to, don’t “befriend her’ and hide your attraction.
State your intentions (either verbally or non-verbally) and show your attraction.
This lets a woman know that you are a leader, a man of value and know how to go after what you want. SUPER SEXY!!!
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