Each week, Five Thôt brings you "Confessions from a Wing Girl," from Marni Kinrys--a woman who puts her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.
I’m 20 years old and have slept with only girl—my girlfriend of the last year. We’re getting serious, and I really like her, but I’m concerned that I might not have enough sexual experience to get locked down to one girl. My friends all seem to be dating around, and getting lots of experience with different girls before they settle down. They tell me I should do the same. It may sound crazy, but I’m concerned that I’m missing out. Should I get some broader sexual experience before settling down?
Maybe you should do the same but only if you want to. If you love your girlfriend and don’t want to lose her, then don’t lose her to go chase “the dream”. If you already have everything you’ve dreamed of, then sit tight and be happy where you are.
The advantage you have over these other guys is that you get a sexual experience that is not awkward and totally safe.
What I suggest you do is explore with your girlfriend. You can role play, try new positions, toys. Be playful with it and expand your sexual world. But be sure to let your girlfriend know that you are doing these new things because you want to explore, not because you are bored with your sex life.
Trust me when I tell you that most of your guy friends will not be getting the same education as you when it comes to sex.
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