Each week, FIVE THôT brings you "Confessions from a Wing Girl," from Marni Kinrys--a woman who puts her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.
Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.
Thanks for all this brilliant information. The way you devote your life to helping people fulfill their dreams is admirable - you're clearly a good person, I appreciate that.
Perhaps you can help me too. My main two issues, at the moment, are lack of motivation and going for the kiss.
I often don’t have the motivation and self-belief to be able to go up to any girl and just talk to her. I always think of it as a pointless exercise, even when I know deep down, that if I apply my mind to it, I could do it.
Secondly, when it comes to going for the kiss, I have several issues. I initially think that she won’t want to kiss me (even if she is attracted to me) and that she’ll reject me, or laugh in my face, or play hard to get, or that I’ll do it at the wrong time and I’ll screw it up. Or I think that even if I DO get the kiss, that sooner or later she’ll just leave me for a guy who’s cooler or smarter or more sexually experienced than me, and it’s not worth the hurt that will all lead to.
Anything you can advise would therefore be incredibly appreciated.
Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot to me!
I think both of your questions get the same answer from me. It seems like you are not seizing the moment in all areas even though you know it's the solution.
So let me ask you this. What is it that is REALLY stopping you from going after what you want?
My belief and what I teach to every man that I work with is to always remember you are allowed to ask for whatever you want as long as you are being honest, non-manipulative or non-hurtful. This means, go approach any woman you want to talk to. Kiss a girl you want to kiss.
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