Each week, FIVE THôT brings you "Confessions from a Wing Girl," from Marni Kinrys--a woman who puts her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.
Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.
I stopped by the grocery store on my way home from work and I saw this girl walking toward me, we made eye contact, but half a second later she looked away.
When this happens I find it even harder to approach a girl that catches my attention. When women make eye contact for half a second and then look away, does that mean she's not interested? Or maybe she's shy? Or maybe she's creeped out? What is it? Should I approach?
Think about it this way.
If you look over at a hot girl and she looks back at you, what is your first reaction? The typical, gut reaction is to look away. Why? So you don't get caught right? Don't worry. I do that too.
I did it yesterday at the gym. I looked over and saw a guy I thought was attractive. He looked at me, so I quickly looked away. It's my automatic response because you're not supposed to stare. BUT after I looked away and composed myself, I looked back at him and smiled calmly and confidently. He smiled back and we had a nice moment.
What I am getting at is don't get freaked out by being caught off guard. Compose yourself and then take your shot!
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