Confessions From A Wing Girl #40: Did I Ruin My Chances By Getting Too Cute Too Soon?

Each week, FIVE THôT brings you "Confessions from a Wing Girl," from Marni Kinrys--a woman who puts her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.

Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.


I will be honest with you. The text was a little creepy. The joke was not conveyed properly and it gave me an icky feeling. The text seemed a little premature and too cutesy to be texting to a girl you just met. It sounded like a boyfriend/girlfriend text. But from a new guy it’s just creepy.

In the future, think before you text and think to yourself, am I texting to actually say something or am I texting to make sure she doesn’t forget about me.

Texts that come from that “I hope she doesn’t forget about me” place always fail UNLESS she is already into you.

The one thing to point out is that you guys had already said you were going to talk/hang out next week. Therefore there was no NEED to contact her. If you wanted to be sweet, you could have sent a simple (non-creepy) text saying something like “so how did the move go?” or “successful move?” or “enjoying your new place?” and that’s it. 

If there was a connection with this girl she should be able to shake the text and move forward to actually meeting you.

Make sure you pull back a little and understand that just because a girl is into you and accepts an invite does not mean she is your girlfriend.


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