A QUESTION FROM ROB:
I’m just a passive easygoing person and a nice person. Girls never really showed much interest in me. Then just as an experiment I tried acting like a jerk and many girls liked me more and we there was more connection. Why do girls like it when I act like an a-hole?
AND SOME WISE WORDS FROM MARNI
Because you’re not really being a jerk.
If you are the good guy you say that you are, I’m pretty certain that you’re new “Jerk” behavior is actually assertiveness and confidence. Very different from being a Jerk.
Jerks, bad boys and A-holes do not and will never get attention from women. At least, not from top quality women.
I have never heard of any woman sitting with her friends during a girls night saying “I can’t wait till I meet a Jerky, A**hole that will treat me poorly, belittle me on a daily basis and show absolutely no signs of respect for me.”
All women are looking for a good MAN. A MAN with a backbone that respects himself. An authentic MAN. Not a Jerk.
Women love playfulness, challenge and teasing. They DONT like when a guy will bend over backwards for her with out even knowing her and giving up all his self worth.
You have tapped into something amazing. You have gone from passive, to active! Which is super sexy, which is why you are getting results.
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