Confessions of A Wing Girl #46: Am I Too Short?

Each week, FIVE THôT brings you "Confessions from a Wing Girl," from Marni Kinrys--a woman who puts her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.

Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.


I have one simple question. It seems that all women want a tall man. If you look around, it doesn't matter if the guy is tall and fat, tall and ugly, tall and broke, tall and a complete jerk, the taller guys always seem to get more women. If you look at online dating sites, even some girls that 5'0" want a guy that's 5'10" or taller.  I'm only 5'4". I know that not every single female is like this, but I feel I've already lost the sense of attraction just by my height?  What advice to you have for shorter guys, and why do women shorter than me still want guys a foot taller than them?


To feel feminine, small and petite. Plus biologically, height is a precursor for survival and strength. I'm not going to lie and say that if I asked 10 women if they thought they would date guys that were shorter then them, maybe 1 out of 10 would say YES. 
But it's interesting what happens between expectations and reality. If a girl were to interact with a shorter man that made her feel excitement, sexy, feminine and fun, his height could be come an "issue" that is not a deciding factor. 
So don't let women's expectations of what they THINK they want hinder you. 
A few things you can do is not turn yourself down or OFF because of your height. Instead let a girl tell you that it's not for her. Act tall, be tall and she'll see you that way. 
You can also experiment with lifts if you want a little edge!

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Interested in more "Confessions from a Wing Girl?" Check out Confessions #1Confessions #2Confessions #3 and more.
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