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I feel like women don’t understand me. I’m a quiet guy, of few words. But women always want me to talk, and “share my feelings.” I don’t usually have the words they want to hear, or know what I should say. I feel it hurts my relationships but I don’t know what to do about it.
Help me Marni,
It sounds like you may need to learn a little bit more about emotional intelligence. You may or may not know this but in order for a woman to feel attraction towards you she actually needs to feel you. Feel who you are, what you are about, what you stand for and communication/words/sharing is the key way to make this happen.
The more you share about you in a masculine, confident manner, the more attraction a woman will feel for you. I mean, how else is she going to get to know if you don’t open up and share with her.
I’ll compare it to a video game. Let’s say you sat down for the first time to play a video game. In the first 5 minutes you can evaluate it based on very superficial things but you know whether or not you want to get to know more. So you put time into the game and learn it’s ins and outs. You get to new levels and keep exploring further. Then eventually you get hooked.
It’s like of like that for women. The more they “play” you and see what you’re all about, the more into you they become.
So to assist with this, I would practice opening your mouth and sharing with EVERYONE. Not just women.
So if someone asks you “Do you like dogs?”, instead of saying yes or no you can say Yes because… or No because… and this will trigger you to expand on your thoughts and share more about you.
Don’t be nervous to share how you work and what you think. That’s what makes you interesting!
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