Welcome to another Confessions from a Wing Girl. Each week Marni Kinrys doles out wise advice on dating, relatiionships, and communication by using her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want.
Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.
I have 2 questions for you.
- What would you say caused you to fall in love with men in your past and present? Is it having things in common, humour etc? and what actual things made you realise you were in love?
- Could you please give examples of the way you and your partner have 'challenged' each other?
Great questions! Below are my responses to each question:
- In love is very different from attraction. Attraction involves banter, fun, playfulness, curiosity, confidence, leadership. Falling in love comes when two people challenge one another, support one another and care for one another. Partnership. Once I felt the guy I was seeing was a partner, I would fall in love
- Because we don't suck up to one another. We are both stubborn, highly opinionated people. Which means we clash at times and butt heads. We also have different ways of seeing the world.
The nice thing about us as a couple is that we've learned to appreciate this about one anther and more importantly respect it. So we challenge one another by simply stating what we think without thinking the other person has to think the same way.