Confessions from a Wing Girl #58: What makes a woman feel 'the spark' for a guy?

Dating, relationships, attraction--love is a tricky thing. That's why we bring you Confessions from a Wing Girl. Each week Marni Kinrys doles out wise advice on dating, relatiionships, and communication by using her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want. 

Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.

HI Marni -

Thanks for all your work & materials; I'm just beginning to go through them & have found them very insightful so far.

One Qs from me - What makes a woman feel 'the spark' for a guy?

I'm sure the answer varies from one person to another, but I'm sure there are some common elements - looks, confidence, character, personality?

I'm specifically asking this Qs since the last three girls that I briefly dated (3 to 5 dates with each) all used almost exactly the same words ('don't feel enough spark' or variation thereof) when letting me know that they don't want to continue dating (but would like to stay in touch as friends).



You can't really MAKE a woman feel a spark past the 3rd date. Typically by that time you know if there is chemistry or not.  

BUT to ensure you find that chemistry there are a few thing you can do to ensure maximum potential. 

  1. Be really open and ready for anything
  2. Share about you, your experiences and about your life
  3. Have fun
  4. Listen, ask questions and engage the other
  5. Go on dates that create experiences. I'm not talking about jumping out of planes but dates that show you who the other person is and put you in situations to have a deeper experience than just having a drink. 
Did you listen to the interview I did in What's Inside A Woman's Mind about how to get the second date?  The girl in that MP3 and I discuss this in great detail. I would take a listen
Spark and connection is not something that you can force but it's something that you can keep from happening if you don't do the above. 


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