Confessions from a Wing Girl #61: Lost in it just the sex?

Each week Marni Kinrys doles out wise advice on dating, relatiionships, and communication by using her insider knowledge to good use for the betterment of all men by telling them what women REALLY want, not what they say they want. 

Marni has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here.


I am really attracted to this girl I met online. Her name is Rachel, and she’d from Brazil. She is awesome gorgeous and really cool. The problem is we don’t really communicate a lot. I mean, we have these big long gaps in our communication—just complete silence for minutes on end. It drives me a little crazy, because I’m not sure if we don’t have a lot to talk about, or because of the language differences she speaks English but not fluently, and I only know “El Pollo Loco Spanish.” How can I tell whether it's the language thing, or that its we actually that we don’t have that much to say to each other. BTW, did I mention the sex is great?

--Lost in Translation


Dear Lost in Translation,

So I’m confused.  How long have you been sleeping with each other? AND what do you like about her that makes her really cool? Is it possibly her naked body on top of you ;-) 

Listen, it sounds like you are having great sex with a sexy lady but you want more. Am I right? So then, I would get out of the bedroom and try going on an actual date and TALKING to see what’s there.

If nothing is there then enjoy the awesome sex!


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