Confessions from a Wing Girl #71: Liking Me For More Than My Good Looks

Marni Kinrys has worked with 100's of thousands of men all over the world to help them understand women so they can attract, date, seduce and get any woman they want without being a jerk. Her method, The Wing Girl Method, is based on the key principle of "You gotta turn yourself on first before any woman will ever be attracted to you". For more about Marni, click here. For more "Confessions from a Wing Girl," click here.

A Question From Jake:


I am the master of the first date. I’m a great flirt, and can nearly always get the girl. And, we usually end up in bed together. But it is the regular dating thing that always seems to wreck a relationship. I feel like girls want me for my body, not for who I am on a daily basis. Marni, how do I attract girls who want me for more than my abs and biceps?


Marni's Response:

Did you just write into brag ;-)  Kidding.  I actually have a ton of guys coming to me with this same issue.  They have trouble with moving too fast sexually with a woman because it’s all they know and ruin their chances of something real happening. Totally common especially if you are a super confident, attractive man. Women are going to pounce but it doesn’t mean you have to pounce back.

For a woman, I’d typically tell her to refrain from shaving her legs until she’s ready to go to bed.  This will stop her from getting into bed too quickly. BUT I’m guessing with you shaving your legs may become a sexy conversation between you and the lady you’re about to bed!

So here’s what I’m going to tell you to do.  Most likely on dates you focus on flirting, fun and sexual tension which is great but not for what you’re looking for. If you want women to see you as more than a sexual object you have to present yourself that way.  

Again, I’d tell a woman to not wear major cleavage shirts and a low cut skirt if she wants guys to see her for more than her body and I’m going to say the same to you.  Show women you’re more than a pretty face by being more than a pretty face. 

Talk about your interests and discover hers! Talk about your goals instead of her cute little panties and her sexy smile. 

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